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yap, haiszT my super Ex bf dumped me for another girl and who is that fuckin' girl? my best friend. she betrayed me i hate the both of them there are nights that i wanna kill them. i truly heart broken until now

well,i do..im juz broke up wif my gf a nite before new year.we been together for 5 year..well,we do luv each other but..i do not understand wat happend to her lately.she changed a lots.its hard when we in far distance relationship,rite??am i broken??i don't know..but i know,i don't know how to luv and being luv again..its like hell..its weird when sumone u luv,not there wif u anymore.. :(

Yea especially after 5 years I bet.

yup...
u know,till now my life still empty..
of coz we can find another one..but..
its still not the same..

I Have Been Heartbroken, My First Girlfriend Who I Actually Really Fell In Love With, So On The Last Day We Were Going Out She Was Going Out With My Best Friend And Once I Found Out I Was Depressed For Months And I Still Am Today.

Theres this guy. hes absolutly unconcievably amazing. i get butterflies and weak knees when i see him. never have i been more attached.but from the very begining he was so jealous of everything. if i said hi to another guy or anything.. he becae so upset and was convinced that i wanted nothing to do with him. i would end up spending hours trying to console him.everyone said to leave him because i was going to get hurt. but i wanted to try.i believe in giving things chances.whether its a person or a new food.(no im am not comparing the love of my life to food!) he told me all these things.. how he wants to grow old with me. and how he cant imagine being with someone else.once he sent me this extrmely long text message out of the blue telling me just how perfect i am. i was touched and speachless. ha only to find out later he sent it out of guilt...he cheated on me.i took him back. yeah i know im an idiot so shoosh.we were "happy" i guess.. but there was definetly a wall.i fell in love with that guy. deeply and madly and insanley in love...he broke up wth me a little over a week ago after us dating for over a year...when we were dating we spent as much time as possible together.. now im nothing to him. he sends my messages on msn only if i start the conversation and then he usually doesnt say much..i dont get how we could go from being soo strong to being...nothing? i dont know what i did wrong but i wish i knew so i can go back to him and try and fix this and keep that flame burning if just for a little longer...

 

*wtf that is an isanley long post.... haha if you read it all. kudos to you!!!*

It's tough when you are young. A lot of people do not want to settle down and sadly end up 'moving on'. Try talking to him he should at least give you an honest answer for breaking up.

Heatbroken for me was when a girl I met in college and got on with very well, we started dating for 5 months everything was fine, Then she all of a sudden became closed up and wanted space, then started not answering my texts or calls, so I was like wtf going on her, asked around with my friends to find out she had been seeing a lot of my mate.

All in all a month before we broke up she had been going out with one of my best mates, messed me up inside a lot but one thing that allowed me to over come it was my friends, if you have good friends that wills it and talk to you, you will make it through

man break ups and people cheating on you sucks = ( yeahh i was cheated on by this guy who i properr loved. like i wont be able to love anybody else- we'd been going out for nearly a year and im so no over him, he sucks. </3 love sucks atm </3 = /

hmmm heart broken.. never really.. i deal with problems quickly ^^ ..but,,,,,,,,,,,, I broke up with my gf ( 1yr 3 mnths) because we were not on the same level.. she kept crushing on other guys and doubting my love and being unsure of hers for me. To be honest felt really good to end the relationship, it was better than being in it... moving on is the fastest way to get rid of heartbreak to me.. never be afraid to move on ..worked for me and i was working on that before i ended my relationship.. makes life a whole lot easier.. u just need to be strong,, being utterly heart broken is not necessary and for some it is not even an option

^ Good advice.

I have been heartbroken once... I never really got over her until I met my fiancee, I thought my world was over until I met her.

^ a new love can always mend a broken heart I hope that Astra will keep your heart mended ^^ a

yh totally.. i got my heart riped out and trod on over and over again.. i was with him(nw called dickhead). his name is DANE.. we were 2gether for 2 yrs.. we broke up a few times during but always got bak 2gether after a wk or so.. nd like a wk before our 2 yr he broke up with me... i jst sunk into a black hole .... nd he treated me like crap after like sending me msgs saying u were a waste of time .. he quoted..."isnt it funny we both in the same book but not on the same page since u love me and i never really ever cared..." how shit is that... so i ended up jst trying to party the feelings of depression away which didnt help cus i wld jst then cry more when i was drunk.. wat made it worse was he then wld fone me nd say im sry i didnt mean it.. i love u still.. but he wld hav a new gf the nxt day.. so for a yr after we broke up he still had me by a string.. nd i was dumb enough to hold onto it.. waiting for him to take me bak... i nearly killed myself over it all.. but thank god i didnt he was never worth it.. so it took me a yr to get over it.. nd still when i see him i feel shit.. but GARRETH found me.. nd my heart has started to heal.. so life seems to be a lil brighter than it was before... :) there is more to this story but dont wana bore everyone.. nd it is really shitty to the rest of it.. wat he did to me nxt but hay... ooops babbling again.. lolz

^ Well I'm glad your on the mend anyway.

yeah i tottaly adroed this gut like madly really idid then he just didnt care i was like young tottaly adored his family i was there like every weekend we never did much but when we did it felt really good and then the realtionship turned sour and he dumped me by tent cos he was in love with another girl then thats was like a a year ago never got over him till chris and its nice to have someone who loves me like i do him.. every one deserves happiness and i truly beleve thats every one will find it

uhmm.. yeah.. ive been broken.. and it eats the shit out of me!! its really, really painful i just wish to be naive for that moment.. what i do is just pretend i dont know him even though im in million pieces.. trying to be whole again..

CuteEmo, you sound just like me, I got stuck with a guy so much like that but I wouldn't say I was heartbroken as I never really liked him, I don't know what was going on. -_- My current boyfriend is my only ever one and only :D one of Nathan (nw name DICKHEAD)'s 'friends'. Nathan liked knives. Figures that ben should be so nervous. -.-" we both have issues left over from knowing him.

Im Going Through It Atm But Im Dealing With It As Best I Can!

yeah im heartbroken now,i guess im not meant for love,since chris left me,i have been down as fuck,since people found out i have been asked on dates but theres no point,there not chris,so there not what i want,one guy asked what i look for inaguy and i said,nothin i want one guy and one guy only,sorry your not him and i walked away,so im not "dealin" with it at all