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JustMe
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The people i call friends.. Jun 13 2009, 02:27 AM
Right, i've basically had enough of my mates to put it simpley. Ever since i fell in love they've done their best to get in the way. They've told him all these lies about me. They've banned me from seeing him. They've made him feel unwelcome. But they do it every time I'm in love with someone. But, since we've stayed together for over a month now and they don't seem to be getting anywhere they've moved on to destroying my friendships. A girl i grew up with hates me for who i am for some reason. And they've told her that i've been bitching about them and that i've been "weird" with them.And she told me that i'm ruining their lives. The main three doing it have totally blanked me for about three months now before I fell in love. So, at that point i decided to move away from them after they started being bitchy about me.. At which point I met the soon to be boyfriend who then confessed he was in love with me and yer.. I've tried having words with them but all they say is i'm taking everything the wrong way. But I can't see how I can take any of that the right way. I'm stuck with two of them next year when we go to college. But, I decided I'm going to find other friends. I'll be stuck with them on the train every day though. They did it to my mate when she first started going out with my cousin aswell. Now my mate doesn't talk to them. My boyfriend doesn't want me to fall out with them because of him though. He doesn't understand it's not his fault. His mates were a lot more welcoming and I've spent time with my mates aswell as his. Anway, does anyone have any idea how to stop them from trying to ruin my love life and general life. It's really got to me the last few days and everyones getting really annoyed at them now..

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CupCake_
Posts: 11
Jun 14 2009, 01:00 PM
Well i have friends just the same.. every bf i have its like i cant spend time with them because they would feel as if there my second choice when they oviously werent. I Had a best friend and we were like sisters, she had a fallout with her previous friend and now there talking and shes happy.. and i guess i was happy but then she forgot all about me and was concentrating on her new best bud.. it really pissed me of because if i had a bf she would act all strange and now she has this new best friend she dosnt care about me anymore.. her new friend hates my guts and i dont care since its not the first time this is all happened. So i got fedup with all her bullshit and she was acting as if i was the bad guy so i just started ignoring her till she got the message that i was seriously upset. Her and her friend ALWAYS bitch about me.. i just act as if i dont know and everything is fine again.. but i had enough of it so i just started ignoring her until she got mad and i just didnt care because friends like that arnt really friends are they? Friends dont bail on friends or leave them. I think ur better of ignoring them and try to make some new friends because even if you make up with them they'll always be a time when you least expect it, they'll turn on you.

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