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LipsOfDeceit
Posts: 2174
friend? troubles Aug 28 2009, 08:36 AM
erm this is gonna be fastly riten sorry.. but today i was speeking to a friend lets say... "Jane" who said have you heard from another friend.. "Ellen". of mine. I hadn't. Turned out this "Ellen" had told someone else that she hadn't been around cos she had been diagnosed with bipolar... which ironicaly, i have. Out of curiosty i text "ellen" asking how she was. she said she had and appendix infection. Im really confused? I know that it would take longer than 2 visits to a doctor to find out you had bipolar... and she does make shit up a hell of alot. I don't know what to do?! Im annoyed and i thought here would be the safest place to ask what to do instead of spreading this around and causing trouble in my friends can you help?

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Emo Pictures - xXeMoRaCeRXx
xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18262
Aug 28 2009, 05:35 PM
Straight out ask her if she has been diagnosed with bipoloar. If so tell her your there to help if she needs it. Strange thing to lie about if she is.
LipsOfDeceit
Posts: 2174
Aug 30 2009, 01:16 PM
o_O haha yeah that makes sense... i dunno why i can't think of these things for myself lol.
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DeadxStar
Posts: 69
Sep 01 2009, 12:00 AM
you just say hey Jane told me you have bipolar, why didn't you tell me? Just wait and see what she says. :D
LipsOfDeceit
Posts: 2174
Sep 01 2009, 12:20 PM
tbh, im scared to ask incase it causes trouble >.<
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xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18262
Sep 01 2009, 05:24 PM
We both say just do it :D
LipsOfDeceit
Posts: 2174
Sep 03 2009, 08:36 AM
i'm gonna sound totally awkward now but i kinda just realised like a while ago that yeh her parents are splitting up and i know she's not taken that too well and i dunno maybe she just wants the attention or help or whatever but i dunno what to say because i wasent the most parented child... if that make sense? :S eugh i hate being awkward... sorry i just don't want to make anything worse cos i care about her..
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xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18262
Sep 03 2009, 04:23 PM
Your right to tread carefully then. Just try and be there for her for now even if you doubt her honesty. So many people lie if they feel weak/vulnerable/need attention.
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xXxChrisJWxXx
Posts: 1546
Sep 04 2009, 09:50 AM
If you just chat more often it may just come out in a convo. You just need to try and be there for her and you'll probably see yourself. Just be a good friend is my advice I guess.
LipsOfDeceit
Posts: 2174
Sep 04 2009, 01:50 PM
It's always so hard to be a good friend with everybody bitching atm haha. >.< but yeah that's a good suggestion thanks :)
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xXxChrisJWxXx
Posts: 1546
Sep 04 2009, 02:26 PM
You always been a great friend to me x
LipsOfDeceit
Posts: 2174
Sep 05 2009, 02:35 PM
Thanks, you too. :)
LipsOfDeceit
Posts: 2174
Sep 09 2009, 10:52 AM
ok i asked her, she said no. i told her she could tell me if she had i'd be there for her and that she still said no. so i dunno :\
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xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18262
Sep 10 2009, 04:33 PM
Tough situation. Either she is hurting inside and doesn't want to share her feelings with you or she is simply a liar..
LipsOfDeceit
Posts: 2174
Sep 11 2009, 09:49 AM
both, i think. but meh. =\

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