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fairydust
Posts: 32

guy problem?? Nov 20 2009, 04:46 AM

alright... i met a guy in the beginning of the year..his name is michael..hes nice & funny and everything i could ever want..we have been "talking" for a really long time now..but he has already messd up twice. the first time he messed up was bc i was mad at him for somethn idr wht, so tht weekend he straight out screwed another girl. I forgave him. (i kno i kno) we continued tlking, and i tried to forget about it. the second time he messed up was once again on the weekend. Some girl asked him out in another school & he said yea. he kept telling me it was the biggest mistake hes ever made, blah blah...well eventually i did forgive him, and he broke up with the girl. did i do the right thing by giving him a third chance to date me? i love him, even tho hes hurt me..i dont think i could b happy with anybody else as long as hes around.

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LipsOfDeceit
Posts: 2169

Nov 20 2009, 03:37 PM

i he's not gonna hurt you again, it's the right choise. but you never know untill you try.

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MissMonster
Posts: 2

Nov 20 2009, 07:17 PM

Hmmm well go with what ur heart tells u if u think he is going to hurt u stay away if not go back to him!it's all your choice rember what you say okay!

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Vybz
Posts: 1466

Nov 21 2009, 06:18 PM

hmmm, the guy probably did not know what he wants that is why he was going around with other girls ... sometimes it takes more than one mistake to finally realize what one truly desires or to truly learn from ones mistake you can give him another chance though :) you may be just what he needs to keep him steady. just some advice from a guy point of view

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fairydust
Posts: 32

Nov 21 2009, 06:26 PM

well the advice tht was from a guy helped the most lol thank you (:

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Vybz
Posts: 1466

Nov 21 2009, 06:47 PM

no problem anytime :)

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Nick-Aotmzgin
Posts: 1004

Nov 22 2009, 04:25 AM

he sounds quite an untrust worthy piece of human but yet i have no ide'a if u shold keep him! or just dump him Again , it's u'r choice and...i hope the light will shine u'll see what's gonna be done next.

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xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18315

Nov 22 2009, 09:19 AM

A third chance is ok, but anymore and I say just try and forget about him.

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Vybz
Posts: 1466

Nov 22 2009, 10:14 AM

^ yup.. applying baseball rules is not a bad idea at all Just remember human beings make mistakes and are flawed in so many ways At the end of the day its up to you and your heart.. how much your heart can take

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eleventynine
Posts: 533

Nov 23 2009, 12:29 AM

i completely agree with vybz's first post and would have said something similar if he didnt beat me to it :P but imo 3=last chance, anymore michael will take advantage of your kindness and will keep hurting you

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Pagan
Posts: 605

Nov 24 2009, 01:17 AM

my friend is goin through this her dose nothing but cheat,but yes one more chnce 3rd time lucky if you love the guy you love him but if he dose it agian leave him yes it will hurt but not as much as him cheatin on you xx

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