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Thomis
Posts: 453

recently shattered Jun 01 2010, 06:22 AM

k so just recently i had the long coming talk with the girl i fell in love with while i was in canada. i was super pissed cause just as we started to "be together" i had to leave canada, she was the first and only(so far) girl i "loved" and i did everything i could to try make it work from across the world. but eventually we both realised that it wont work, cause even if i go back to see her, or she comes here to me, there is no future for us in our current states of life. so we had a really long chat and effectivly "broke up" even though we weren't going out but anyway, it shattered my world.. so now i have the arduous task of finding the girl of my dreams.. again, for the second time.. total bummer, took me 18 and a half years to find the first one. not looking good. so basically i posted this cause.... i need a hug.

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JustMe
Posts: 177

Jun 01 2010, 07:27 AM

Well, have a hug then ^^ -hugs- But, that really sucks =/ Are you still mates? You never know, you might end up back together somehow... But, good luck with your hunt for your dream girl!

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Thomis
Posts: 453

Jun 01 2010, 07:54 AM

yer we're still mates. we have an agreement, that if we're both single when i finnish uni, i'm going to go live overthere legit to see if we can make it work :)

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Shaniqi
Posts: 67

Jun 01 2010, 08:51 AM

hugs >_< I no exactly how u feel except we didn't break up so nicely he won't talk to me :p

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Breezy
Posts: 336

Jun 01 2010, 12:01 PM

awww, I had a boyfriend that was the best one i had, he moved away though. other than that i'v never had a real boyfriend, the closest thing since then was an old friend that we ended up being more than friends, it was kinda complicated, we were but yet we weren't. its ok, their is millions of girls on this planet, you will go through so many girls before you find the right one and don't ever give up, she might be right under your nose ;)

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Thomis
Posts: 453

Jun 01 2010, 04:48 PM

this i have been told many a many times :) its just so hard to sniff out the good ones lol, and then once you find one you like there is like a 1% chance she'll ever fall for me. its a shame but its life.

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Shaniqi
Posts: 67

Jun 01 2010, 07:03 PM

haha yeah so hav I or that love comes when u least expect it but all the guys I end up liking are jerks and wouldn't take to glances at me but I'm sure you'll find someone your a good looking guy so I'm sure of it on my side slim to none but like you said that's life

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xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18264

Jun 02 2010, 03:08 PM

A lot of us have been in similar situations but pulled through on top. I'm sure you will find someone else you like as much, but sadly you might go through a few girls to get there.. That's life.

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XxxcuteemoxxX
Posts: 272

Jun 03 2010, 10:39 AM

here is a HUGE HUG.. i get wat u going through cus im abt 2 go through it im moving over 2 the uk for uni so of course im leaving behind my amazing boyfriend.. nd we still havnt really talked abt wat we gona do but it ovious cus it jst wldnt work. nd its so close nw.. leaving in abt a month i will be home at xmass but only for a lil bit... so it wont make a difference.. so yh i knw its hard nd i hope u either find another amazing girl or u get the one u had bak... xxx

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Thomis
Posts: 453

Jun 03 2010, 10:04 PM

are that sucks. nothing worse then being in a relationship with a time limit.. i hope you sort it out and dont get too hurt :(

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Lollirot
Posts: 63

Jun 04 2010, 09:59 AM

Same :( I hope you sort it out. - Best of luck :(

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XxxcuteemoxxX
Posts: 272

Jun 08 2010, 10:31 AM

yh i hope i can.. xx thanks..

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XxArtsy_Emo_KidxX
Posts: 33

Jun 28 2010, 04:24 AM

here have a hug....and another one coz you seem like you need a few :) im really sorry about that, that sucks something awful man, its good that your still friends though, and who knows, you might find someone new, and if you two are truely meant to be together, fate will somehow bring you together again in the future, i know it hurts know though, so lots of virtual hugs for you!!!

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nikkiwest
Posts: 2440

Jun 28 2010, 09:03 PM

aww I love you again Thomis *hugs tightly giving a pat on the back* and you should move to Canada it is georgous, the only thing is its WAY colder than Australia

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