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LipsOfDeceit
Posts: 2171
Would you ever date someone who was transgender? Jan 15 2011, 03:42 PM
So yeah, I know a lot of people on this sight identify as bisexual or whatever, and I thought this would be interesting to here your opinion on this subject... So just as the question above says, would you ever date someone who was trans?

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Emo Pictures - nikkiwest
nikkiwest
Posts: 2440
Jan 15 2011, 04:36 PM
Yeah I would... infact I know a pretty hot tran that if she didn't live in Jersey I'd date her.
OnyxAngel
Posts: 834
Jan 15 2011, 07:15 PM
I don't wanna sound mean, but nooo.... I'm all for gay marriage, gay adoption, bisexuals, transgenders and cross dressers, but I can't see myself dating a transgender. I probably will, if I really love the person and have a deep connection with them though xD
ChocolateBubbles
Posts: 163
Jan 15 2011, 09:07 PM
Ah, difficult one. I think yush tho. But I still would date guys...I'm not too sure atm. But if I loved her enough, yush ^^
Emo Pictures - xXeMoRaCeRXx
xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18264
Jan 16 2011, 08:42 AM
No I don't think I would. What about you Bex?
Croboi
Posts: 35
Jan 16 2011, 10:24 AM
umm prob not.. cuz Ive hadda rlly bad history with them. Friends is ok tho... But nuthin more..
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2153
Jan 16 2011, 11:10 AM
I dont think i ever would but im all for everyone else doing it :]
Emo Pictures - xSUICIDEBLOODx
xSUICIDEBLOODx
Posts: 7232
Jan 16 2011, 11:16 AM
but when i think about it more a boy dressing like a girl? no... :O i do respect thou people who loves that kind of people xD and yeah well boys is the number one for me :D x
LipsOfDeceit
Posts: 2171
Jan 16 2011, 01:01 PM
I don't know really, if it came down to it and I like really liked the person or whatever they yeah I guess so? I don't actually know, it's a tough question. :P
Emo Pictures - Blue-Eyes-Lion
Blue-Eyes-Lion
Posts: 140
Jan 19 2011, 09:23 PM
Woo topic builds my confidence ¬¬
Emo Pictures - xSUICIDEBLOODx
xSUICIDEBLOODx
Posts: 7232
Jan 19 2011, 09:39 PM
^well i am not against transgender persons :) on the contrary i would love to get a friend that is transexual :) i already have friends that r bisexual like myself and i hope to get gay friends soon too :D the gay/bi/trans community is a very nice community to belong to :D <3 x
Emo Pictures - xXeMoRaCeRXx
xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18264
Jan 20 2011, 03:12 PM
I'd have to be put in the situation really.
Emo Pictures - Blue-Eyes-Lion
Blue-Eyes-Lion
Posts: 140
Jan 20 2011, 03:56 PM
I think the point is, you have to understand that people who are transgendered feel exactly the same as any other person in the gender that they want to be. A trans woman will still have the same brain as any other girl, they have just been born in the body of the wrong sex. If you loved a trans woman, or a trans man, you would still be loving a woman or a man, but you would be loving one that had to undergo surgery to get the body they should have been born into. Gender = your head Sex = your body
Emo Pictures - xSUICIDEBLOODx
xSUICIDEBLOODx
Posts: 7232
Jan 20 2011, 03:59 PM
^ word on that <3 x
Emo Pictures - Grrrrreg
Grrrrreg
Posts: 39
Jan 21 2011, 10:59 AM
I think it would depend on the person's personality, but yes, I probably would.
LipsOfDeceit
Posts: 2171
Jan 21 2011, 03:22 PM
I have no problem with peoples appearance and all that I'm more a personality person, so if I was faced with the situation that I happened to really like someone and they were trans I don't think it would bother me because I like that person for them and that is all that matters... and put in that situation I hope I'd think just that... it goes down to the whole would I date someone the same gender as me, and again I don't know because I've never been in that situation, and you could never fully know until I was in that situation... If that made sense? But I do kinda believe that love should have no gender or sexuality really, you love who you love and that's that and I guess there is always going to be people who disagree but that is life. xD
FlamingBlackSkull
Posts: 464
Jan 21 2011, 07:26 PM
I like people, really. I don't really identify with a particular sexual preferance. To my friends, I'm heterosexual, but I'm discovering that I near more to the 'bisexual' side of things. If anyone asks, I'm just 'sexual.' (It makes them confused so they shut up and I don't have to explain, haha) I remain open because (psychologically speaking) gender and sexual preference is fluid, and I don't want to put myself in a box like that. So yes, I would. That being said, there would be a lot of drama and confusion involved; If not on my part then their's. But I don't date just anyone so the person would be worth it anyways. Still, I think I'd best know how to answer this question if I was actually put in the situation.
Emo Pictures - JojoCupcakeKillerrxD
JojoCupcakeKillerrxD
Posts: 1222
Feb 04 2011, 09:38 AM
Ummmmmmmmm O_o as in transvesdite? or however you spell it? Noooooooooooo sorry haa not for meh
Emo Pictures - xXeMoRaCeRXx
xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18264
Feb 04 2011, 01:22 PM
This explains the term, but it can be a little confusing: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transgender
Emo Pictures - Blue-Eyes-Lion
Blue-Eyes-Lion
Posts: 140
Feb 05 2011, 04:08 PM
A transvestite is someone who wears clothing made for the opposite sex as either a sexual fetish or to fuck with people's heads. A transsexual is a person who through hormonal development more or less has the brain of the opposite gender, leading them to want to be the opposite sex. This is called Gender Identity Disorder and is a recognised medical condition in more or less every non fascist country in the world and in the UK the processes to physically transition from female to male or from male to female are covered by the NHS. Referring to people with Gender Identity Disorder as a transvestite is like calling a black person the N word or calling a gay person the F word, because you are not recognising that it is a natural part of their body and are degrading it to something that is freakish, wrong or perverted.
FlamingBlackSkull
Posts: 464
Feb 05 2011, 06:46 PM
This is only slightly irrelevent to the topic at hand, but it reminds me: One must also keep in mind a drag queen doesn't have to be a transvestite. Just saying, in case anyone mentions that. (Since, after all, we have sort of moved on to dicussing what defines exactly what a transgender person is) People often think they are one in the same or are transgender. You can be either or none if someone is a drag queen. It was a topic discussed in one of my personal circles recently due to a media-related thing, so...I just wanted to make that clear while this topic is fresh. In any case! Love is love is love. However, we shouldn't expect EVERYONE to feel like me, and don't feel bad if you wouldn't date a transgender person. And no one should be offended unless something bad is said. I feel that people think they are performing a certain form of bigotry if they say no. Not saying that you guys on here feel that way, but generally speaking. You can support what is generally referred to as 'pansexuality' without actually being one. Like straight people who support the LGBTQ.(And of course, to a bit of my chargrin, the others not included in that title.) There I go again, ranting...Sorry, this is a topic close to my heart. Anything of this sort is, actually...

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