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RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2153
How can i help him ? Jan 18 2011, 08:41 AM
My dad is an alcoholic he has been for about 40 years of his life my dad is 68 yehh he is old ! Well recently well the last 4 years he has been getting ill but has been recovering from it. However now he isnt recovering from illnesses but doesnt want help. He has gangreen in his legs they need to be amputated for him to stay alive but he wont do it. He has to much pride i think but he has me my sister and his grandaughter to think about. His liver is fucked only something stupid like 10% of it is working but he wont have a transplant even though they said he can be put higher up on this list because my sister and myself would pay for the transplant. He has been throwing up all liquids and solids he's dehydrated cant talk properly and cant walk properly. All he can drink now is milk he cant chew anything anymore half his teeth have fallen out where he has fallen over because he has been so drunk. Everyday he goes nextdoor where another alcoholic lives they drink about a few bottles of whiskey together. I actually dont know what to do. He wont go to the doctors he wont go to hospital but he really needs to. Can i force him to go ? My older sister is the next of kin but she isnt his blood daughter but she said i can make decisions and she will sign the papers as she is over 18. Can i force him to go for his own good ?

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xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18262
Feb 13 2011, 03:36 PM
I'll be here for you the best I can *hugs*
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2153
Feb 14 2011, 08:46 AM
Thankyou but you dont have to be im just another person at the end of the day.. :/
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xXeMoRaCeRXx
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Feb 15 2011, 03:16 PM
Yea, but your someone I care about..
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2153
Feb 15 2011, 11:23 PM
Well thanks matt :] <3
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2153
Feb 21 2011, 03:15 PM
Another pointless update Still in ICU has gotten worse he has several internal bleeds cant eat without being sick and he is now incontinent he said he'd rather die than go into a care home. Ohh the joys of life....
Glass_Tears
Posts: 272
Feb 22 2011, 02:05 PM
you should force him save your dad even if he doesn't want to go or he refuses to go, make him i was never given the chance to save my dad... but you do. so take that chance
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xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18262
Feb 22 2011, 03:02 PM
As far as I know she is trying her best. It's such a tough situation I can't imagine how hard it must be.
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2153
Feb 22 2011, 03:05 PM
Theres only so much i can do im very limited as to what i can do, it doesnt look like he will leave hospital anyways....

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