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When i think of you I think of love And hate of things never to be What i see in you i see love And hate in things I wish could be Hate In Me, by Moss Icon

Emo Forums » Help And Advice (Reply)

XxAlexGoesRawrxX
Posts: 7
Help me please Apr 24 2011, 12:04 PM
my older sister (well she wasnt really my REAL older sister but we were adpted together) hung herself last night and i feel conflicted. i feel sad that she did it but i also feel pissed knowing i could have done something and i've lost soo many people like my oyfriend, my best friend, and parents. and i didnt think i'd lose her and i dont know what to do. no one cares really when i told my 'friends' about my sister they said 'im not your therapist" while others said "well thats stupid" and that doesnt make matters better! :( i dont know what to do anymore....i seriously dont. and it isnt just this thats bothering me but my whole life, im a total failure i gave up e=on everything...love...happiness..and soon i'll be giving up on my life, nothings good ever really happened to me and when i do 'god' always takes it away from me.... :( i know i cant blame him/her/it for everythings bad in life...i blame myself cause im a screw up and i guess i deserve to lose it all but i miss them all soo much! i dont know what to do or how to cope with all this...please help me if its not too much to ask??? :/

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Emo Pictures - DizzyDotRocks
DizzyDotRocks
Posts: 830
Apr 24 2011, 01:56 PM
Omg, that's awful *hugs* Well one thing I think I should point out, we're all here for you if you need it :) But you shouldn't blame yourself, you really shouldn't, if somebody decides to end their life, there's not much you can do to change their mind, all you can is remind them how much you love them and just hope to God that they decide not to go through with it. Your friends clearly aren't good friends. I wholeheartedly suggest finding new friends. I guess I'm lucky in that I have supportive friends, so trust me, it's worth finding them, and if your friends react like that to such bad news... I just find that quite disgusting tbh. You say you're a failure, and although I don't know you well, I would bet that you're not. Very few people who think they're failures actually are. You haven't been dealt the best hand in life, so you feel like a failure because you blame yourself for everything bad that's happened. But it's not your fault! And you most certainly do not deserve what's happened to you. It's natural to not know how to cope with it, and I would suggest asking your adoptive parents for some form of counselling. Unfortunately, I don't know how the system for this works outside of the UK, so I can't give you much help on how to get it, but I think it would benefit you. However, I'm here if you want to talk further, and I'm sure a lot of people here would feel the same way *hugs*
Halloweenonchristmas
Posts: 268
Apr 24 2011, 07:08 PM
Oh my god im so sorry *huggles* I'm really not good at pep talks and/ or comforting. just know that us guys at soemo are here for you any time you need it:)
Emo Pictures - xEvilEmox
xEvilEmox
Posts: 264
Apr 25 2011, 03:43 AM
I'm so sorry to hear that *hugs* Can't say the I blame her, I myself have thought so many times of doing it, but didn't have the guts! I understand exactly how you feel. This sounds so much like my life, (except that people in my life don't die, they just betray me then disappear or walk away...) I just what you to know that you're not alone in this and that it's not too late to make things work the way you want it to, even if it's gonna take the hard way.
dark-side-risenx
Posts: 493
Apr 25 2011, 06:58 AM
Sorry for your loss. :(
Emo Pictures - JojoCupcakeKillerrxD
JojoCupcakeKillerrxD
Posts: 1222
Apr 26 2011, 05:41 PM
Don't ever believe that this is your fault! U don't deserve any of this! It breaks my heart to hear this. People were wrong to say those things about your sister... You needed someone to talk to. But that's why everyone on this site is here... you can always talk to us. Don't give up on your life. In the end, everything will work its way out. That may not be what you want to hear, but I believe it is true. I know you're angry and frustrated and grieving... I'm terribly sorry. I wish I could fix everything for you. *big hugs* You can get through this, I promise. Just hang in there. We're here for you

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