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Okay, first off let me say this isn't about my choice, I'm the "friend" and my (former?)friend is the one choosing. Now... to ask what I want to know, let me tell you all this story... Okay, so... over the summer I met this amazing girl, her name is Hannah, we became crazy good friends real quick, this girl was absolutely amazing... we just had so much in common that for the first 3 weeks of meeting each other we texted from sun up till sun down, and I mean that LITERALLY, and then at night we would Skype video chat... we were such similar people that we never ran out of stuff to talk about. She was an amazing friend, and very gorgeous to top it all off. Now she had a BF, which I had no problem with, I was just fine being her friend. Now the day after I met her, she had a momentary break up with her BF(their 4th breakup of an 8 month relationship)... apparently he broke up with her under the excuse of "just using her" a half of a week later they got back together. For me that's NBD, now 2 1/2 weeks later he messages me from a friend's facebook account and starts talking about how I need to stop talking to her, and me(wanting to keep this amazing new friend) told him no, he proceeded to curse and try to anger me(he failed) and he confessed to thinking that I was trying to steal his GF even though I told him me and her were just friends. Now the following day she wouldn't text back, which was odd(cause of our 3 week straight texting spree), so I messaged her on Facebook asking if she was ignoring me, she decide to text back saying that we needed to take a break... This deeply saddened me and I started telling her how wrong that was to stop talking to me just because of her jealous BF and I just wanted to be her friend cause I cared about her(as a friend of course) we talked it out and she came around to keep talking to me but things were different, she stopped being "her" the rest of that day... the worst part was saying goodnight. You see I constantly complimented her on just about everything... not cause I wanted to date her, but because she really was a beautiful girl and I know girls kinda NEED to hear things like that so I told her "Okay, goodnight beautiful" and she goes "please just stop" and I replied, "stop?"... she finished with: "nevermind I just need to get some sleep, goodnight", that deeply hurt me cause at that point I saw how much things had changed... I slept on it and that night I slept on the idea of just breaking ties with her cause I thought she wasn't treating me fairly put simple. The next morning I sent her one text telling her that how she was treating our friendship was wrong, I told her I was done with the whole scenario and that when she was ready to be the friend that I talked to for 3 weeks and the friend I remember, then I would always take her back and forgive her... she hasn't talked to me since and is still dating her BF(5 days from now will be their 1 yr anniversary:/ ) she avoids me at school, and me and her BF has constantly tried to antagonize me(but only over text)... ironically while getting my school schedule arranged I ended up in a class with him AND in the seat right next to him, he said nothing to me and didn't even try to back up his 'tough guy' act he pulls while talking over text so personally I see this kid as a lowlife trash talker with no spine... long story short she chose to choose her BF over me even though I've made every attempt to just be a good friend... I miss her so damn much that it just makes me so depressed now and then... was her choice justified you think, or was it wrong for her to throw away our friendship? I'm just curious and seeking some advice :/