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My own father. My own damn father. First when I am only in the 6th grade he always criticized me on the way I dressed. He always said I looked like a man whore and BDSM worker. Even my own brother said I will be man whore when I grow up. Then my dad tells me that I am so full of shit my eyes are brown. Then in 7th grade, I dye my hair. He always says how horrible it looks when I wouldn't even ask him. Then he continues to ridicule the way I dress. He made fun of not only the color of my hair, but also the way I styled it. Finally, it's 8th grade. He hates the way I look now. I cut my hair short and he thinks it looks horrible. I dress to acomodate the way I feel and he always has to say something about how he doesn't like it. And I can't say anything about it without getting yelled at and getting grounded for no reason other that the fact that he can get away with that. He grounded me for 5 month because he thought my room wasn't clean enough. And whenever my friends ask for me to come over, I have to tell them: "I can't. My dad grounded me till January 1st because my room isn't clean enough for him." Other times he would go into my room just to take stuff that is important to me. He once took all my Swarovski figurines that are made of a delicate crystal glass and cost almost 100 dollars each, putting them all in his hand and leaving. He broke 2 of my cows, the horns fell off and he said it was my fault and he didn't do anything. That they were already broken. I see them everyday. I know that they weren't broken until he man handled them. And now he planned a trip to see my grandfather today when we are suppose to spend the day with my other family. Why Christmas day? Why can't it be any other day in is more convinient for everyone but yourself? Just because you decided it makes it all right to do whatever the hell you want huh? He does all this crap and then he starts saying that I hate him so much and he acts likes he has no idea as to why. You think people like the things that you do? You think that I enjoy putting up with it? But even after all that, I don't hate him. I am just curious why he does all this stuff to me and he acts like he is just so perfect and he has never done anything wrong. Is it normal for parents to be like this? Sorry for the mini rant everyone.....