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EmoRazorBlade
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Falling inlove with my bestfriend ><__>< Jan 11 2012, 09:15 AM

So we know each other for like 3 years and are really good friends... I maybe kinda by chance,,, urrm Like her 0_0 And i donno how to tell her cause i dont wanna lose her as a friend ): So yeah, advice would be nice. Btw, im shy. Specially around her so its hard...I have tried flirting but she doesnt get it!! Help! xx

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JCGenocideofNormal
Posts: 266

Jan 11 2012, 10:26 AM

Ohh, this famous problem. YOU CAN DO IT! =D Just take a deep breathe and relax, think about what you want to say to her, rehearse it, if you will, sure its weird and it will be really weird talking to yourself about it, but, you need to know what to say to her, go somewhere private with her, ask her to hang out after school or something some day, and just go for a walk, get away from anyone you know, cause people always pop up at the most impossible moments..and really ruin a moment, being shy is a disadvantage, but its also a ADvantage, some girls love a dash of shyness in a guy, so just tell her how you feel, tell her you've liked her, or you love her..whichever you choose to say..make it sorta jokey sounding, little laughs, but make sure she sees you are serious..If all goes well let the sparks fly! ^^ If not..then i'm sure it wouldn't destroy you're friendship, but something like that, i'v even had happen..and its awkward to remain friend zone after something like that..even as much as you want to. So its really difficult to try to do this while thinking about what could happen, and what it'll be like after, but you can't keep the feelings in, they'll tear you apart before you know it..and if you think about it and not tell her..when you finally are ready..it might be to late. So you just gotta seize the moment, and tell her, like its the last day on earth! Goodluck =)

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EmoRazorBlade
Posts: 68

Jan 11 2012, 12:20 PM

Hey, thanks for the advice! Will be very usefull, fortunately i am the typical boy next door (Dark Brown Hair, brown/green eyes etc.) And she seems to like it. I will make my move in about a week! Thanks dude!!

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slitwrist123
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Jan 11 2012, 03:01 PM

just tell how you fell straight upp dont let your fear get in the way of your love i asked my best friend he said yea we broke upp and were still cool so it shouldnt make a difference if she was your true friend .......

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EmoRazorBlade
Posts: 68

Jan 12 2012, 07:09 AM

Thanks so much :) xx

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