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JustinaJurrasicJewl
Posts: 7
I need advice May 03 2012, 11:58 AM
I go out with this boy named Dominic. We haven't been together long. Our date is 2-27-2012. He's really nice and sweet, but I don't really go for guys. I realized I'm a lesbian. I wasn't sure when we started going out, but I have no doubt now. My mom says it's just phase, but it feels so certian. Anyways, now I have to break up with him, but idk how. He's been through alot. His mom died and all his past girlfriends have dumped him or cheated on him. He cuts too and I don't wanna make things worse. I told my sister, but she wasn't much help. She was all like "You better not dump him. You're lucky to even have him." blah, blah, blah. She's sort of right though cause not many guys find me attractive where I live and I only have 2 friends, everyone else hates me and thinks I'm weird. I'm just lost. I don't know what to do. So now that I've poured my heart out to you..help?

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Jackson-ThatGuy
Posts: 10
May 03 2012, 01:23 PM
I feel sorry for you. My ex was in the same position. I'll give you two choices. You can; - Wait until things have settled and tell hiom yourself but chances are that he'll be rather attached to you by then. OR - Tell him now to prevent the level of heartbreak being as big as it would by the time he's settled. I have this friend and she had an LDR with this guy. He turned out to be fake. He was actualyl a she but my friend said she'd have stay with her because she was a really lovely character. No matter her sexuality. Just take that into mind, yeah? Hope this helps. - Jacko
FiFiTheVampBitcxh
Posts: 243
May 07 2012, 01:44 AM
maybe sit down with him and talk him though that your just not into guys and thta you wasn't sure before, tell him its nothing to do with him and that hes a nice guy, etc and that you'll still be by his side to help him through tough times. Im just worried that he'll do the whole 'ima cut myself' and shit because of problems and past stuff like say 'every girl has dumped/cheaated on me, im not important to anyone, etc' -_- (not trying to be a dick or anything towards him)

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