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nobody_cares
Posts: 253
Bullying Jul 05 2012, 08:18 AM
I've been bullied since I first set foot in school. It just gets worse every year. It's almost everyone in the school, even my brother. I used to be able to wake up and go to school because I had somewhere to go. Now I'm not allowed to go there and things are getting worse by the day now. Nobody understands what I go through every day of my miserable existence. Every time I tell someone, the person who bullied me finds out and makes my life worse. people always tell me to tell someone but whats the point? I just don't know what to do anymore :,(

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KateKickass
Posts: 26
Jul 05 2012, 07:10 PM
You shoud tell your parents, and if they dont do anything, then, well tell anyone whos emo scene punk goth, they will understand you, im afraid your bullying has gotten out of hand, have you ever heard of Jayy von monroe? He was bullied too, but it got so bad, he needed a police escort, hey if your parents dont listen, tell the police, once you feel like killing yourself.
nobody_cares
Posts: 253
Jul 06 2012, 06:55 AM
My parents keep saying it's my fault for not being like everyone else. I did get the police involved once but once the police thought they sorted everything, it started up again with more people. Even most of the other emo kids joined in, and theres not many in a school full of chavs. ..
KateKickass
Posts: 26
Jul 06 2012, 09:21 PM
Well, i dont know much to say, all my bullying was just being called emo, but tell the police, they will get tired of it, and sujest what jayy von monroe did, one room to yourself with one teacher, never going out when kids are out, ariving to school 20 mi early and leaving 20 mi later.
FlickerOfHope
Posts: 189
Jul 07 2012, 04:49 AM
I agree go, try and find a way to do ur lessons in a selected room, and sadly living by urself might be the way to be, cause being alone will make u stronger in the long run even if it does hurt in the mean time! Also put everything uve got onto pen and paper! even if u begin to cry in the mean time just do it! dont be afraid to cry, its a natural thing to do when ur distressed! But the level of bulling ur under is unexceptable! Ive said this before on other posts but i stand by it, never be ashamed of being different, ur individuality makes u who you are, dont let anyone else try determine who you are. Im bullied in school as well not as severly as you but I still get beaten up, yelled at, have my hair pulled, notes with hurtful comments placed in my locker, and even rubish thrown at me! teachers and students both pay me out! its never ending but through it all ive remained true to who I am and never let anyone dictate who I should be. Also im not keen on violence AT ALL, in fact I dont promote it as an option at all, but if the time comes when im forced to fight ive always been able to deffend myself! so perhaps doing some self deffence classes or somthing could also help if u can afford it, cause the good ones can somthimes be expensive! I tried going to the principle but he really didnt help alot, so I tried to hide myself which stops me from getting hurt constantly, but It doesnt eliminate the problem and I also found that I started to loose who I was! So yea your situation is a tough one but perhaps try a few of the things said, perhaps they will help a little!
FlickerOfHope
Posts: 189
Jul 07 2012, 04:53 AM
But please if u do look at self deffence try not to use it unless ur life or someone u care about is threatened. cause it could attract even more attenstion to urself! So I dont recommend it as a solution, but instead as a protective aid only to be used in dire circumstances! :)
nobody_cares
Posts: 253
Jul 07 2012, 07:09 AM
My old karate teacher used to tell all his students that. I haven't seen him since I told him I had to drop out. I got put in internal exclusion for my own protection once, but that means being sat at some desk in the middle of some corridor surrounded by teachers. And people pass through that corridor. A few teachers join in with the whole "emo" thing. I've never been ashamed of being myself, just afraid because I was scared I'd end up like that girl who got beat up a few years back. There were times when I feared for my life as well. The police where I live think that an escort is a major waste of resources...
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DizzyDotRocks
Posts: 830
Jul 08 2012, 01:01 PM
I only ever suggest this as a last resort, but it sounds like you've exhausted every other possibility... but would it be practical for you to actually move to another school? Obviously this isn't possible for everyone, but I know of some people who've had to move school because they've had no other option and they've found the bullying to be minimal or non-existant in their new school, so it's worth thinking about.
nobody_cares
Posts: 253
Jul 08 2012, 01:17 PM
I found a better school a few bus rides away, but my mum won't even let me take a look round. She didn't even look at the website...
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DizzyDotRocks
Posts: 830
Jul 08 2012, 02:12 PM
I don't know if you can change schools without parental consent, but in a situation like this, surely there must be a way? There's a website I'd recommend you checking out, cybermentors.org.uk . They can hopefully help you a little more with the situation.

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