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xXeMoRaCeRXx
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Suffer in silence or make a fuss...? Jul 10 2012, 01:38 PM

Which option would you pick and why?

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Kate
Posts: 4199

Jul 10 2012, 01:50 PM

silence ..because no one genrally listens to me either way and what use dose making a fuss acheive apart from drawing unwanted attenshon to the situation ?

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xXeMoRaCeRXx
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Jul 10 2012, 01:54 PM

Oi I listen xD

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FlamingBlackSkull
Posts: 464

Jul 11 2012, 12:12 AM

It honestly depends on the situation.

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FlickerOfHope
Posts: 189

Jul 11 2012, 05:54 AM

I would suffer in silence for a few reasons, 1. making a fuss and trying to get others to help isnt me, 2. No one else would care if I told them, 3. because I can generaly deal with things myself, 4. tehlling others gives them another weakness they can pick on. The only time I would make a fuss is if I see someone else (like a friend or a young child) being hurt either phisicaly or emotionaly for somthing they didnt do or somthing they didnt mean to do, that when ill stand up and make a fuss cause i dont like seeing others hurt. :) I dont like to let every1 know my problems cause it means its another unnecassary burden they have to carry!

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MiowMiow123
Posts: 26

Jul 11 2012, 08:31 AM

It depends on the situation it could go either way for me depending on what the actual dilemma was!

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DizzyDotRocks
Posts: 830

Jul 11 2012, 02:43 PM

Again, it would depend, but for "personal" problems, I usually suffer in silence, whereas if I have a complaint about something (like when the headteacher of my old high school tried to shut down our theatre company), I tend to make a fuss :)

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FiFiTheVampBitcxh
Posts: 243

Aug 13 2012, 01:53 PM

i dont know be a bit of both i'll be silent as i normally am but i can;t not tell someone i have to tell at lest my mum if something's happens that's effecting me

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Sugarcane
Posts: 14

Aug 18 2012, 09:51 PM

Well suffering in silence can be very painful for yourself (well for me...) And making a fuss can make people think your an attention whore. BUT if its for a bad cause like your school shutting down a program or a bully its better to make a fuss I prefer making a fuss. I like getting my opinion out even if it annoys people.

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Kamikazeke
Posts: 78

Aug 19 2012, 01:45 AM

I tend to make a bit of a fuss. If you are going to be a thorn in MY thigh, then I'm going to return the favor by becoming a pain in YOUR ass. ;p

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Kate
Posts: 4199

Aug 22 2012, 01:45 PM

silence ... Think i've learnt my lesson the hard way and it goes beyond regret

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lostcause
Posts: 76

Aug 26 2012, 02:22 AM

silence is golden or so they say.

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