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Swing, swing, swing from the tangles of My heart is crushed by a former love Can you help me find a way to carry on again? Swing Swing Swing, by All American Rejects

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Philo-ph0bi-a
Posts: 21
"Friendzoned" Aug 26 2012, 10:35 AM
I don't want to be single, I want to be with you. You like her though, you aren't dating her but apparently she is better than me I guess. The signals you're sending me is that I'm not good enough for you, that's cool :/

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FiFiTheVampBitcxh
Posts: 243
Aug 26 2012, 02:13 PM
i think you should just move on from this person. Yes it hurts he doesn't love you back but you can have everything so just face the fact that he's with someone else (which doesn't mean that she's any better then you) and move on. You'll find someone eventually don't worry
Philo-ph0bi-a
Posts: 21
Aug 26 2012, 02:39 PM
He isn't dating her but he likes her and I find it sad because he's only known her for like two weeks and I don't even think he has talked to her :/ I've tried to move on but I've liked him so long it seems impossible... This sucks :/
FlamingBlackSkull
Posts: 464
Aug 26 2012, 03:30 PM
Oh, the dreadful friendzone. I've been there. A LOT. (I'm such a ladybro...) While it may seem horrible now, sometimes people are better off friends. Trust me on this, I've had experience! It will eventually pass. It probably feels like your feelings will last forever, but when you find someone who likes you back you'll probably forget all about this guy. You might even be all like "wtf was I thinking?!" Just stay strong, even though it's difficult. :)
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lostcause
Posts: 76
Aug 27 2012, 02:18 AM
Have you ever told him how you feel? Me and my current girlfriend were in a friend zone situation, where i really fell for her but because i thought she wouldn't have liked me i never said anything. Infact id tell her that she wasnt my type and emphasis that i only like her as a freind and wed hav an inside joke tht were twinnys. But this was only because i was scared that if she even caught hint how much i loved her then she might freak and stop being my freind lol. So id be seeing other girls bringing her with me, introducing her to guys i knew but she never really liked any of them except one she crushd on but im 99% sure hes gay lol. Neways we started hanging out alot, and oneday she got totaly drunk and tried to kiss me and get on me while we was on our own and i had to push her off because i didnt wana spoil how things were. She was so embarased, but i started realising that she liked me too. And the next week just as freinds we went into the country together to a field just to watch the stars and we were seeing loads of shooting stars was so beautyful. I wished for her. And it was cold and we had like 1 sleeping bag and she was like lets see if wed both fit in it.... so after 1hr of trying not to kiss her, i askd what wud she do if i did.. and she closed her eyes and we kissd. 18months later were really happy and getting married in January xD She said she was jelous when i was with those other girls and she had no idea I liked her, so she was crushing on other guys (making me jelous at the time) only because it was to distract her from me because i wasnt intrested. So freindzone isnt always an end game. You just have to play it carfully and not look too much into signals and find out where you stand with that person. And if you realy like them you should just say. Iv had alot of "freinds" tell me that they really like me and i only saw them as freinds but i didnt get freakd by it i was really flattered and I still stayed freinds with all of them. Sometimes even if they say no at first then later on they get thinking and can change theyre mind or they start seeing you different. But youl never know if you dont say. And its better then living with the unknown thought of will he like me or wont he. And if hes a jerk il kick hes ass ok??
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xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18264
Aug 27 2012, 12:35 PM
Great story and advice lostcause :)

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