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ZitroBro
Posts: 4
My friend is jealous? Nov 11 2012, 08:50 AM
Okay so.. I am REALLY good friends with this girl.. let's say her name is Betty. Well.. Betty and I have been best buds since 4th grade. We are practically family. I am not even considered a guest at her house anymore, I have to do chores and clean my own plate. Well.. I started dating this guy, Corbin. I really feel comfortable with him. And I think I have a big chance with him. This is my first boyfriend by the way and we have been dating for about 3 months now.. Well. Ever since we started dating, Betty has been getting REALLY jealous. A few examples.. I went to the movies with him and not her.. and she acted kinda weird. When I tried to tell her about it, she kinda just sighed and walked off. But she got worse. I had my first kiss with him. And she barely talked to me for like 3 days. Then one weekend.. I wasn't feeling up to par. So when Betty asked me to come over, I denied her, saying I was gonna take a nap. Well when I woke up, I was feeling fine again and Corbin messaged me, asking for me to come to the movies and I said yes. Well.. when she found out Monday morning at school she was pissed. I was like.. "Betty. Calm your tits." She got even more angry.. Soon she started LOGGING INTO MY SKYPE AND READING OUR MESSAGES. I was like.. WTF?! Betty: "I can't believe the way you guys talk to each other. It's so weird and nasty." FOR ONE. IT'S NOT NASTY. I'm NOT that kind of a person. She has NEVER been in a relationship before so she has no right. AND WHAT IS SHE DOING SNOOPING IN MY MESSAGES ANYWAYS?! Then she started saying we were obsessed with each other. Always wanting to hang out. That's kinda what a couple does right?! So I am kinda pissed at her. Plus, my friend Tanner really liked her, but when he caught drift of this fight with all of us, he changed his thoughts about her. So if she keeps this up, she is never going to date anybody. I just don't get why she is so jealous. Any help? :c

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x_beyondparanormal_x
Posts: 131
Nov 11 2012, 11:58 AM
I say dump the girl :( She doesn't sound like a very good friend if she's doing this No, better thought, talk to her and find out what's goin on and then you can decide whether or not to dump her.
ZitroBro
Posts: 4
Nov 11 2012, 12:07 PM
I talked to her a little about it but she refuses to say it was her fault to begin with. But.. she did admit she was being jealous. But.. she hasn't changed. She still acts exactly the same. And it is pissing me off.. same with Corbin and everyone else. We all think it's bs.. but she doesn't seem to get it. >_<
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Xolivia-von-sodomyX
Posts: 510
Nov 11 2012, 07:25 PM
every girl is going to be a little upset when your spending a lot of time with a new guy and not her but she is going a little to far. mabey she likes this guy to and thats why she is so pissed and reading your messages. here is an exsample me and this guy i was friends with werent really dating but it was well known along our group of friends we were an iteam and kinda together. but my best friend since 5th grade was sitting in his lap and trying to get his attention. This pissed me off and made me super jelous! if i could have looked to see if they were talking and what about i so would. i mean every one knew i was head over heals for this guy and when she flurted with him i would get so pissed and want nothing to do with her. so in my opion i think she is ethier super jelous because she feels he is taking her place, she likes him, or she likes u. hope this helps!
FiFiTheVampBitcxh
Posts: 243
Nov 12 2012, 12:03 PM
to be honest, I understand her being pissed off with you on the day you say no to her but yes to your boyfriend when you really should of rung your friend saying that you can come round now instead of going out with your boyfriend as she did have priority. I mean you need to make a balance with friends and boyfriend as having a relationship doesn't mean be with your other half more then anyone, no it's quite the opposite. obviously, have a word with her just asking why she's acting like she is and listen to what she says. it may not be jealously. she may just feel like your not as close as you use to be due to you being with your boyfriend a lot. It could even be that your talking about him to her is your doing that a lot as people can get annoyed and jealous if all you keep talking about is your other half. I say just ask her what's the matter and actually listen to what she has to say and see whether things can be sorted and improved. It could even be that fact that she's just not use to it. I doubt that it's a she really likes him situation if she was a true friend
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xXeMoRaCeRXx
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Nov 13 2012, 04:20 PM
I agree with everything FiFiTheVampBitcxh said :)
ZitroBro
Posts: 4
Nov 13 2012, 04:37 PM
I get what you're saying about letting her know I could come over, but she lives so far out of town. She probably couldn't have even picked me up anyways.. But I still could have let her know. And I don't really talk about him to her much at all because I know it can be REALLY annoying. And, I do let her share her side, and help her with her problems, but she doesn't do that for me anymore. She blows me off and kinda just ignores me.. Sometimes I get the occasional.. "Oh, I'm sorry to hear that." But then she never messages back. It's just all going down hill.. I even spent the whole weekend with her this weekend and she is still mad. I don't know what to do. :T
FiFiTheVampBitcxh
Posts: 243
Nov 14 2012, 01:56 AM
then sjut ask her nicely and calmly what's wrong that's all i can say and that's all i think you can do at this point it is probably that she's not use to it and just assumes things will be different and whatever. i mean she could be being a right ass about it but then if it's your frist time and she hasn't had one before either then she may just feel thats she's being pushed away as you can't be together 24/7 as before. Just keep asking her but don't stress out at her

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