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Nikkimikki
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Forever alone I guess... Dec 21 2012, 03:21 AM

I guess I'm just not that kinde of girl, boys fall in love with!?.... I'm 17 years old, and I've never had a boyfriend... or even kissed anyone. I'm afraid that I'm going to end up like an old cat lady!.. I just wanna feel how it is to have a boyfriend.... I feel lame for saying this.. Maybe if I was pretty someone would like me.

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FlamingBlackSkull
Posts: 464

Dec 21 2012, 04:41 AM

I'm seventeen and I haven't been kissed either. To me, a first kiss is not something to rush; so don't! I may be old-fashioned? or maybe when it comea to intimacy I'm just oddly conservative, but that's just me. Also, if you want someone to like you because your pretty or not, that's not a good base for a relationship. on a conscious level, at least. However? because I know where you are coming from I will say that i totally understand. I've been there. to be honest, i thought id be alone. but someone will come when you least expect it. someone who likes you fpr you, not if you're pretty or not. and i bet you are pretty! Oh, and I'm not going to sugar-coat it.. relationships are less about cuddling and more about coexisting and compromising. but yeah. i wish you the best of luck!

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eskemo
Posts: 3

Dec 21 2012, 05:05 AM

i agree c: i am 20 years old and never kissed anyone or really been in a proper relationship i guess and its definately not something you should rush. I also think the same that maybe if i was pretty people would like me but it comes down to more then that and people liking you for who you are and your personaility. don't worry someone will come along c:

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kerberos
Posts: 11

Dec 21 2012, 06:35 AM

who says you're not pretty? no one has the right to judge you, not even yourself. Relationships are not based on looks (the best ones anyway). Compromise is important. Cuddles are nice too. pretty or not. i think we all know the answer to that one

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nezzyneon
Posts: 896

Dec 21 2012, 02:07 PM

in a generation such as this I have to say that is truly remarkable from my point of view! :) You don't find people like that in today's society and i respect that. And you will find someone...if not now, then sometime soon. And it really isn't about how pretty someone is for a guy to like you....a guy with a real heart will like you for the person that you are not for your looks. Take it from someone who hasn't had a real bf....you are beautiful and you will find that person soon enough.

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xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18262

Dec 21 2012, 02:36 PM

I'm sure people do like you. Just gotta find them! Get chatting to guys on here for a start!

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-FiFi-
Posts: 212

Dec 22 2012, 12:43 AM

nothing evolved around a relationship. in my eyes you need to be happy with your life and yourself before you're ready for a relationship as they don't oprovide complete happyness most of the time. :)

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xEvilEmox
Posts: 264

Dec 22 2012, 08:50 AM

You're still so young! you have a whole life ahead of you. And to be honest, relationships are kind of inevitable. At some point in your life you WILL be in a relationship regardless of how you look, where you live or what you do. So no need to over-think or rush things, everything will happen in the right time. And to tell you the truth, I'm 21, I haven't kissed a guy, I don't have the most glamorous personality, I don't feel pretty at all nor the law in my town allows me to have a boyfriend, YET, I just recently got in a relationship with a sweet guy who loves me just the way I am. In the end true love is worth the wait!

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