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As my bones grew, they did hurt They hurt really bad I tried hard to have a father But instead, I had a dad I just want you to know that I Don't hate you anymore There is nothing I could say That I haven't thought before Serve the Servants, by Nirvana

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x_beyondparanormal_x
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</3 am i doing ok? Apr 20 2013, 04:27 PM
well...*SIGH*. she dumped me. ): </3. yep. hah. i mean...i'm not completely bummed out or anything..I was for a couple of days but i just kinda...accepted it. August 14th would have been our 1 year anniversary. well..she says she eventually wants to go back out she just needs space. pretty much all i know is 1) 1/2 the reason she dumped me is because she said she has feelings for my ex-friend. who's straight and doesn't even like her as a friend. yep. grr. and 2) she says she's under a lot of pressure over the OAAs (Ohio Achievement Assesments)so..yah. i'm proud of her for caring so much about her grade. but the thing is, we were planning on breaking up on the last day of school because we're only allowed to see each other in school so it would be pretty pointless to still date...I gave her a pretty-ly wrapped yellow tulip with a little diamond heart attached to it on friday, she liked it. i just..wanted to apologize.later that same day she started crying because she got detention for something she didn't do. i tried to help her but she kinda flipped out and the teachers wouldnt let me stay. i know i was never a very good girlfriend. i suck at giving advice and um...just making people feel happy or loved in general. i have a bad habit of pushing people away. that's why i wanted to apologize. i've been taking social therapy and practing and stuff every day for about a month now, and i haven't cut for 17 days (thats a new record! xD). i'm trying really hard to be a better person for her because i still love her and i want to be her girlfriend again. so i guess i was just wondering, am i doing the right thing? my friends keep telling me to forget about her and move on because we've already broken up several times. we always get back together but it's never really..taken this long. she just refuses to go back out with me right now and when i try to talk to her about it she gets mad..i'm not saying it's her fault, it's no ones fault....i dunno. your opinion? thanks in advance ..lessthan3.

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Emo Pictures - -FiFi-
-FiFi-
Posts: 212
Apr 21 2013, 09:13 AM
i don't know... to behonest you are very young and most relationships your age generally don't end up lasting. It seems that you both are a bit confused with the whole thing and what you really want for you keep breaking up and whatnot plus the reasons you've given to why.. like she liked you friend which is just make it obvious to the fact she may not be serious and not ready when it comes to relationships if she falls to temptation that easily. In my eyes, you two may be better off going separate ways for this braking up all the time is probably showing a sign that maybe you two just ain't right together. Plus you're both are so young, you shouldn't be worrying about relationships. GCSEs and friends are the only things I feel at your age you should be worrying/focusing on.
x_beyondparanormal_x
Posts: 131
Apr 21 2013, 05:02 PM
well thanks for the reply
Emo Pictures - -FiFi-
-FiFi-
Posts: 212
Apr 21 2013, 11:38 PM
it's just what my view is at the end of the day it's your choice
Emo Pictures - xXZeroKidXx
xXZeroKidXx
Posts: 24
Apr 29 2013, 11:26 PM
she wants to do her for a little while and get school done so i would just focus on you and get yourself to a better spot in terms of you what your already doing. stay strong and stay in there. IF you guys have something geniune dont let any1 take it away. you have to fight for those you love. because if you dont then they will slip away.

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