Emo Scene Community

Ok so I have been super confused lately I have a bf and he is super awesome he is sweet and kind and he loves me a lot even if things are shit we both care about each other and were good at working through things. But lately I have just been kinda blah about the whole thing I feel bored and much less interested. I feel like the spark that was there has fizzed out for me but he is still head over heels for me. don't get me wrong I love and care about him but at the same time I don't want to keep dragging him on if im not 100% in to it. it also doesn't help that its a long distance relationship we never see each other so any type of contact is only through Skype or text. we been together for 9 months and I don't know if I want to throw it away I also would never want to hurt him in anyway. On top of things I recently started talking to an old friend who told me that he likes me and if me and my bf didn't work he wants a chance but he is willing to wait. both of them are different in a lot of ways me and my friend have a history of good memories we grow up together and know the same places and people were me and my bf don't have any of that in common. my friend also is a lot like me we went through a lot of the same things and were the outcast growing up. my bf was never like that and its hard to talk about stuff like that with him because he cant relate. I feel so stuck if I did try to move on and give my friend a chance I would be able to have fun and go do things and share things I cant with my bf. but at the same time I would never hurt him and I don't want to turn my back on some one I care about because even if there are things missing we care about each other so much we can try to look past them. I just need to advice its really been upsetting me what would you chose to stay were u have been confertable with the person u know loves you even if u arnt sure your 100% into it or would you try to move on and create something possibley better or worse with a person you share a lot with? help please! and no comments saying to be with both or hint cheating because that is no way in hell an option.