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ahoyitsjade
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i really wish i had a friend.. Jan 23 2014, 09:43 PM

Im a young teen mom, doing everything alone. My sons dad left me a little over a year ago, i was 6 and a half months pregnant when he decided he didnt want to be with me anymore,.. i know some of you might think im pretty stupid for thinking about it still, but its hard not to especially since i do have a son that needs his dad in his life.. i feel so alone because i really havent had any support since the breakup, its hard... now the only one that truly makes me happy is my son, he is my world, he is just so perfect, in my eyes, and i dont know what i would do without him. I know it sounds like im just ranting and complaining, but its just how i feel.. i have been through a lot with my ex and its overwhelming sometimes; when i was 16 weeks pregnant i found out hecheated on me with my "best friend", and then he still would talk to her and so many other girls, and then as i said before when i was 6 and a half months pregnant he left me... god its so hard to talk about because, it is really the whole reason why i have so much trust issues with men, now.. i really wish i had a friend to talk to about this, and i wish there was a cute sweet guy out there, that accepts my son and me, and helps me get passed all this...

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xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18264

Jan 27 2014, 03:23 PM

*hugs* you sure have a lot to deal with alone..

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Bones
Posts: 1726

Jan 28 2014, 12:29 PM

^yer really helpful look sweetie lets just say I know a few guys...the tip is to use them and not let them use you...im happy for you and your son...though for future advice try before you buy...and don't let a prick insert his dick (unless pricks turn u on like me...) i really do feel for u hunny i no what it feels like to be with a guy and then he ups...even though hes done something wrong u will always love him....and wish the hell u had used a condom...cuz they gave u some fucked disease and made u pregnant and then ran off with someone with the same name as you ....oooh fucking hell i nooo how u feel... ever need to catch about how to chose another bad guy and how not to use contraception im the person !!!

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xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18264

Jan 28 2014, 03:10 PM

"the tip is to use them and not let them use you" - bad advice.

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TashaCatastrophe
Posts: 211

Jan 29 2014, 09:49 AM

Bekah, That's the worst advice possible. Using guys makes it worse. You just ouco utter jackasses to think like that. And Jade, The guys a total twat and he's shown it but what he's done. By the sounds of it ( I don't mean it harshly) at least your son won't grow up like his dick of a dad. There are plenty of guys out there that would be happy to take you both in, just have to keep trying and all will work out.

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xXeMoRaCeRXx
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Jan 29 2014, 10:10 AM

^ now that's good advice!

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thelastchapter
Posts: 179

Jan 29 2014, 11:23 AM

Firstly, I know what it feels like to be cheated on. And secondly you just got to think about you and your kids futer, don't let anyone tell you you're wrong, or a bad mother. and if you want to talk, I'll listen.

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Bones
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Jan 29 2014, 11:51 AM

as if Id give good advise please look at me :O

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TashaCatastrophe
Posts: 211

Jan 29 2014, 12:59 PM

Don't comment on a serious topic then Bekah. Simple.

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Kate
Posts: 4199

Jan 30 2014, 03:42 PM

^ whoa. Calm the titts down ladies! Bekah if your going to make pointless comments, sensitive and important topics certainly aren't the place to do so.. Like Tasha said in the nicest possible way, I mean that guy doesn't deserve you or to be a 'dad' but at least your son will grow up away from bad influences like him and has a loving/caring mother to lookup too for guidance. Like any relationship breakdown being Cheated on always hurts, but the best thing you can do is smile, think of the positive things in life ie your son and not let the bad things get you down,after all good things come to those who wait. Also i'm sure, if you keep trying there are caring guys out there, willing to accept both you and your son into their life :)

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raymonduffre
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Feb 06 2014, 03:28 PM

well... i can be a friend...

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