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So baby, I took a little too much, maybe you sucked the life right out of me. I should have let you know I never meant to go. Sure I lost my mind, but I never really meant to die. meant to die, by The Used

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Emo Pictures - Alfrodo
Alfrodo
Posts: 49
You're never alone in anything Jul 27 2014, 07:51 PM
I'd like to reassure anyone going through any problems in life, you're not alone and you don't have to face your demons by yourself. Whether its bullying, health, family, relationships, friends, etc... There will always be someone out there who has been through the same thing and will know what you're feeling. This network is a great place to start, all of us here have sought help and provided help on these forums. Sure, we don't necessarily all know each other that well or even at all, but one thing we have in common is we're all here, on SoEmo, to make new friends that we have more in common with, it is a safe enough place to let your feelings out without being judged. I've been going through some stuff lately and I chose to distance myself from most people... Now a lot of things are catching up with me and it's effectively a double whammy; i encourage anyone and everyone, speak whats on your mind, never bottle anything up, it makes things worse and never solves anything, the problems won't go away like this. There are enough people here that you CAN trust, in your own time of course but sometimes the best thing about talking to someone you don't know about your problems, is that they have a non-biased perspective, they're not gonna just tell you what you want to hear, they'll tell you what you need to hear to be able to help yourself. If you've read all of this, I applaud your perseverance and hope you remember this next time you need help or see someone else asking for it

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Kasa
Posts: 18
Jul 27 2014, 08:45 PM
That is all truth what you are saying, but despite the efford some people still learn only from their own experience. It´s still very generous of you to remind us all about this :)
Emo Pictures - MaximusStephonovich
MaximusStephonovich
Posts: 212
Jul 28 2014, 07:14 AM
Yeah, I will let you know when I start trusting people online. I don't want to discourage you, but let us be realistic.
Emo Pictures - EyeWings
EyeWings
Posts: 287
Jul 28 2014, 12:33 PM
Theres plenty of decent people to be met online, you have to exercise some caution of course, but thats the same in real-life too, you wouldn't trust someone implicitly until you got to know them well! :)
Emo Pictures - xXeMoRaCeRXx
xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18262
Jul 28 2014, 03:11 PM
I agree and I'm not just praising my own site, but I really have seen it help people over the years including myself.
Emo Pictures - Alfrodo
Alfrodo
Posts: 49
Jul 30 2014, 06:16 PM
Praise your site! Nothing wrong with being proud of your achievement :) As long as you don't over-do it of course haha Ive certainly found it helpful ^_^
Emo Pictures - xXeMoRaCeRXx
xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18262
Aug 04 2014, 04:17 PM
^I'd certainly miss it if it was taken down!
Emo Pictures - Crankor
Crankor
Posts: 79
Aug 06 2014, 05:58 PM
I agree that theres always someone who can relate and possibly help someone through.... Also keep in mind what every person needs differs and isn't always available when needed. One thing i try explaining to people that i don't expect just one person to always be able to help. It can take several saying the same thing but in different ways. I feel its the diff variations that can change your viewpoint on whats bothering you. Ive noticed myself how much your subconscious really shows itself at those times. Theres alot of relations linked with that as well So in a way this is also advice, if what your trying isn't working, at some point you might have to just except your not the person to help that individual. Doesn't mean they immediately need therapy or can't be helped. Whoever needs the help should never expect to just get it from just one person either. Theres alot i could go into but i wouldn't even read it all myself ha.

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