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Artemis
Posts: 16
No sex for a year! (Achievement?) Dec 17 2014, 02:21 PM
Hey. I want to discuss sex in relationships. i broke up with my ex in Nov last year. Since then ive not had sex. (Until Present Day) To start with it was a bit of a struggle, id put people down for no reason. But after a while it became sideline to discussion and emotional development. I found i was doing it because no matter how pretty they were i wanted more. This went to extremes, i thought i was indulging a young lady at Bestival, she was unimpressed by my willingness to comply to her sexual desires. (This ended badly) (for her, you can only kick up so much fuss in a tent with a stranger before your brother comes investigating after all, He was gay, but i have no fear of that, his sister's reaction told me she found his appearance more undesirable than I did and this ended this rather rapey romp) It wasnt that she didnt turn me on and that she wasn't hot as a hash smokers knives but there where no condoms! Any who, I decided i was nearly there and that id do a year voluntarily as a personal challenge. This has no past. My game has dropped, now because ive not exercised my skills im struggling to flirt in that masculinity in the dominant way that women have come to expect in this social earthquake. All Ignorance, advice and open discussion invited.

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EmoPandyKitten
Posts: 15
Dec 18 2014, 12:26 PM
I haven't slept with anyone in nearly 6 months. I regretted the one and only time I had sex straight after a breakup, since it was a call to mask pain that someone had left engraved in my chest. I was brutally heartbroken, and I thought if I indulged in physical pleasure the my emotional pain would subside. I was wrong. If anything it made it worse, and I wanted to wash away all memories of that night I gave myself to someone who was merely the dirt under my fingernails. I have absolutely no game, when it comes to just getting down and dirty with a stranger. But when I was with said person I "loved" its like I knew exactly what I was doing, I knew what that person wanted. I think true sex is enjoyed at its most when you have an emotional bond with the person.

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